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Let's say your family has found a place that's a good fit for your aging parents - congratulations! Onward to the moving process. Standing among the all the possessions your parents have collected over the years, it may seem like a daunting task. It doesn't have to be. A solid plan and a good moving services company will make a big difference in facilitating a smooth, healthy transition. Here are some guidelines:

First, a conversation

Every senior is different, but proceed with caution when helping them decide how to downsize. Be patient and mindful of their emotional process as they begin to assess their treasures. If it gets to personal, many families hire a consultant to objectively help seniors go through their things. Here are some tips:

• Let seniors call the shots whenever possible. 

• Help them visualize the space: Give your loved one a large piece of graph paper that outlines the dimensions of their new home. Measure their furniture, outline the shape on graph paper, and cut it out like puzzle pieces. Using the graph paper and cut-out furniture as a model, help them work through the logistics of how they would like their new space organized. That will help them realize how much they need to downsize.

• Emphasize the positive: Help them see the perks of their new space. "That sunny window will complement your crystal nicely!" - or try to evoke the familiar - "We can hang your special clock above the bookshelf, just as it is now."

  Enlist family for the sorting process

  This might take a while, as every item has a story. Read AARP's family expert Amy Goyer's account of her parents move for a first-hand account. The key is organization.

• Set up some basic categories: For the movers, keepsakes for the family, donation items, items to sell and a throw-away pile.

• Allow your family some time to reminisce as they sort items. 

• Check the senior's will for guidance on how to pass along keepsakes. That list of heirlooms will probably grow with the big move, but have the major items worked out in advance.

  Find the right moving company

  It's important to pick a flexible company to meet your family's specific needs. Check out the company's website and call ahead to interview the company, get an estimate tailored to your families needs and to learn more about how to prepare for the movers. Here are some questions to consider:

• Will the movers give some items special treatment, such as art and sculptures, glassware or antiques?

• Can the company ship through different means, such as freight?

• Do they move vehicles?

  For assistance transitioning Mom or another senior in your life into a new residence, please feel free to contact us at Pack n Send by calling (713) 266-1450 or visiting our website.